Is a PhD worth it? 5 things to consider before starting a qualitative research PhD

Should you do a PhD?

Should you do it now… or wait until you have more time, more money, more clarity, more support?

These questions come up a lot - especially for people who are drawn to qualitative research, where things can feel a little less clearly mapped out from the outset.

A PhD is often positioned as the pinnacle of academic achievement. It’s the point where you get to immerse yourself in a topic you care deeply about, contribute something original, and yes, earn the “Dr” title.

But here’s the thing.

A PhD isn’t just an academic decision. It’s a life decision.

And it’s one that needs to be made with a fair amount of honesty.

Over the past two decades, I’ve seen people start PhDs full of excitement, push through the messy middle, finish and thrive… and I’ve also seen people realise it wasn’t the right path for them.

None of those outcomes are failures - but they do tend to come down to whether the decision was made with a clear understanding of what the PhD actually involves.

So, let’s talk about that.

The dream and the reality

For many people, the idea of doing a PhD is tied to something quite romantic.

You imagine yourself thinking deeply, having interesting conversations, producing meaningful work. You picture a sense of intellectual identity - becoming someone who knows their field.

And that part is real.

But so is the other side of it.

There are long stretches where you’re working alone, trying to make sense of things that don’t yet feel clear. You’ll rewrite the same sections multiple times. You’ll question your interpretation, your understanding, sometimes even your place in academia.

If you’re doing qualitative research, this can feel even more pronounced, because so much of the work involves interpretation, judgement, and sitting with uncertainty.

The highs can be incredibly rewarding. The lows can feel surprisingly heavy.

Both exist at the same time.

What’s actually motivating you?

One of the most important questions you can ask yourself is also one of the simplest.

Why do you want to do a PhD?

Not the polished answer you’d give in an application. The real one.

For a lot of people drawn to qualitative research, there’s a genuine curiosity about people, experiences, and meaning. There’s a desire to explore something in depth, to understand it properly, to contribute something thoughtful.

That kind of motivation can carry you a long way.

But sometimes there are other drivers mixed in - the appeal of the title, the sense that this is the “next step,” pressure (internal or external) to achieve at the highest level.

None of those are unusual. But they won’t necessarily sustain you when things feel difficult.

A question I often suggest sitting with is this:

Would you still want to do this research if no one ever knew you were doing it?

It tends to cut through quite a lot.

The time - and the energy

People often think about a PhD in terms of time, and that’s important. It is a long commitment, whether full-time or part-time.

But what tends to catch people off guard is the mental and emotional energy it requires.

Qualitative research, in particular, asks quite a lot of you cognitively. You’re not just collecting data and reporting it. You’re interpreting it, making sense of it, positioning it within a wider conversation.

That kind of work doesn’t always fit neatly into “I’ll just do a couple of hours in the evening.”

It’s worth being really honest with yourself here.

Not just “Do I have time?” but “Do I have the space in my life - mentally and emotionally - to hold this kind of work right now?”

The financial side of things

This is one of those areas where people sometimes prefer not to look too closely, but it matters.

Even with funding, PhD stipends are often quite modest. Without funding, the financial pressure can be significant.

There’s also the question of opportunity cost. What else could you be doing during those years? Earning, progressing, building something else?

That doesn’t mean a PhD isn’t worth it. But it does mean it’s worth thinking carefully about how it fits into your wider life, not just your academic interests.

Where is this leading?

It’s also worth stepping back and asking what you want your PhD to lead to.

For some paths, a PhD is essential. For others, it’s one of several possible routes.

If you’re drawn to qualitative research, there are actually quite a few directions you could go in - academia, applied research, policy, consultancy - but the routes into those spaces aren’t always as straightforward as people assume.

Academia, in particular, is competitive.

So it’s not about having everything figured out, but it is about asking: does this move me towards the kind of work I want to be doing?

Your wellbeing matters more than you think

A PhD can be deeply rewarding, but it can also be demanding in ways people don’t always anticipate.

There’s the intellectual challenge, of course. But there’s also the emotional side - the uncertainty, the independence, the lack of clear markers of progress.

If you’re doing qualitative work, you may also be engaging quite closely with people’s experiences, which brings its own kind of weight.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do a PhD if you’ve struggled with your mental health. Not at all.

But it does mean it’s important to think about support. What you have in place, what you might need, and how you’ll take care of yourself when things feel difficult.

It also helps enormously to be around people who get it. If your immediate circle hasn’t been through a PhD, they can be supportive without really understanding what the experience is like.

Finding your way into a community of other researchers can make a big difference.

So… is a PhD worth it?

There isn’t a single answer to that.

For some people, it’s one of the most meaningful things they’ll ever do. For others, it’s not the right path, or not the right time.

What matters is that the decision is yours, and that it’s made with a clear sense of what you’re stepping into.

A PhD isn’t something you do because you can.

It’s something you do because, when you really think about it, it makes sense for you - your interests, your goals, and your life.

Thinking about a qualitative research PhD?

If you’re leaning towards qualitative research but still figuring out what that actually involves, I’ve put together a Qualitative Research Starter Guide.

It walks you through what qualitative research really looks like in practice, how it differs from quantitative approaches, and how to start thinking like a qualitative researcher.

You can get it here.

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